Does awarding man of the match undermine development of children's intrinsic motivation and self worth?
Take it to the extreme - what if someone was giving out stickers for good effort or for superstar defender etc...?
Thoughts?
Does awarding man of the match undermine development of children's intrinsic motivation and self worth?
Take it to the extreme - what if someone was giving out stickers for good effort or for superstar defender etc...?
Thoughts?
Yeah I guess it depends on the group of players you have as much as any predisposed idea. What works well for one team wont work for another. My boys team the parents used get a vote each for someone other than their own child help to prevent favouritism (one grandad always complained if his grandson didnt get it!). Worked well for them and most of the time the hardest working player or the one who did the best on what our training topic was got the award.
There's always that 1 that wants their kid to win it every week :-)
For my u9s I give out a player of the week certificate after training, for the player that excels with the team philosophy- it basically boils down to best behaved!
On match days, i discuss with my assistant who deserves motm and we either agree on one player or put two players up for the lads to vote on at the end. I used to also ask the captain (which rotates) to give a medal to the opposition player who he thought was their motm but we have stopped doing that for the moment, given current situation.
I have done something similar, although i will nominate 3 players who have met the challenges set and then let the team vote on 1 of those players
sounds like a lot of over thinking it in my opinion, my group love to hear who has got MOTM and all the team react well with it especially as it is an 'external' selection from the 'fans' (parents) watching. the individual challenges we set are for over longer periods so i like to asses them in that way and not by the weekly reward.
every team and group are different i guess so its what works well for you and your players in that time.
The way I have found works is that if one of the kids has done something really well (or tried) I make sure everyone knows about it at the interval. The positive feedback encourages the child to try it again and the rest of the team acknowledge the praise. When it comes to the end of the match, at least half of them will say "He/She did really well" and it sorts itself out
It's by no means a big thing, they seem to prefer the penalty shoot out at the end!
We are u8 so the main things I find myself trying to put an emphasis on is supporting/encouraging each other (vocally) as well as the bravery on the ball stuff too
There are a million ways to do it IMO