Does awarding man of the match undermine development of children's intrinsic motivation and self worth?
Take it to the extreme - what if someone was giving out stickers for good effort or for superstar defender etc...?
Thoughts?
Does awarding man of the match undermine development of children's intrinsic motivation and self worth?
Take it to the extreme - what if someone was giving out stickers for good effort or for superstar defender etc...?
Thoughts?
My daughters girls team allow the players to choose who their player of the match is. So far they've played 3 matches and a different player has unanimously won it each match. They love it. U13.
That works some of the times, but sometimes it can just be the popular kid that gets it rather than the player thats improving but not the super start, or that player that isnt in the main friends group. Older kids I think are more likely to recognise who should get it, younger ones will just vote for their friends
That works some of the times, but sometimes it can just be the popular kid that gets it rather than the player thats improving but not the super start, or that player that isnt in the main friends group. Older kids I think are more likely to recognise who should get it, younger ones will just vote for their friends
Yeah I guess it depends on the group of players you have as much as any predisposed idea. What works well for one team wont work for another. My boys team the parents used get a vote each for someone other than their own child help to prevent favouritism (one grandad always complained if his grandson didnt get it!). Worked well for them and most of the time the hardest working player or the one who did the best on what our training topic was got the award.
There's always that 1 that wants their kid to win it every week :-)