When I first started playing football, I had no idea that I’d become a player, coach and referee all at once but now I can’t imagine a weekend without it. Growing up I was very lucky to have so many inspiring and encouraging people around me who introduced me into volunteering in football and without them I don’t think I would be where I am now without their help. This has helped me realise that my overall goal as a referee and coach is to give back to the community and be that encouraging person that inspires more young people to get into volunteer roles in football. Each role gives me a different way to support young people playing football and also shows me just how rewarding volunteering can be.  

My journey first started by becoming a referee to officiate some of the youth games at my local club (Wadebridge town). Standing in the middle of the pitch has made me realise that a referee’s role is not to just enforce the rules, but it is also to create a safe, positive environment where kids can play their hearts out. Refereeing has taught me respect, patience, fairness and how to stay calm under pressure which are skills that I’ll carry forever. Watching the kids play with passion and respect makes every match worthwhile and reminds me why I choses to give my time to the sport I love.

I became a coach after much consideration but I know now looking back it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. As a coach I get to see children grow in confidence, learn a new skill and discover their love for the game – seeing this progress makes every training session, early start and everyday worth it. I can remember the faces of my girls team the first time they won a game, the feeling is unforgettable it makes you realise that you are a part of something special. Being a coach has made me realise that it isn’t just about football, it is supporting kids as they build confidence, resilience and develop personally.

Balancing both these roles has taught me just how much youth football relies on volunteers and without them so many children would miss out on the opportunity to experience the joy, friendships and lessons the sport offers, knowing that I’m contributing to that makes me extremely proud.

I’ve learnt that you don’t need years of experience to make a difference as long as you a willing to step forward with passion and enthusiasm to help, you get a sense of community and gain a deeper appreciation for the sport. I can honestly say it’s worth it and it’s a decision you won’t regret making.