February is LGBTQ+ History Month, which is a great chance to celebrate progress, highlight role models, and think about how we can make football more inclusive. As an ally, I’ve always cared about creating welcoming spaces in sport, and I’ve learned how important visibility and allyship are in making that happen. Being an ally isn’t just about saying the right things; it’s about taking action, challenging discrimination, and making sure everyone feels like they belong.
When I was younger, I didn’t see many openly LGBTQ+ role models in men’s football. As I grew up and learnt about Justin Fashanu was the first male professional footballer to come out as gay in 1990, unfortunately he faced hostility and discrimination, which ultimately had a tragic impact on his life. Justin’s story is a reminder of why visibility and support are so important. Today, role models like Josh Cavallo and Jake Daniels have bravely told their stories, helping to break down barriers and create a more accepting environment.
In the women’s game a story that stuck with me was Casey Stoney’s. Her decision to come out while playing and her continued advocacy for inclusivity in football have inspired so many people. Today, players like Megan Rapinoe and Sam Kerr are continuing to push for a more inclusive game in their own unique ways.
These footballer’s courage in speaking out is powerful, but they shouldn’t have to do it alone. As allies, we have a responsibility to stand with them and create environments where LGBTQ+ players, coaches, and fans feel safe and supported. Whether they’re in the public eye or are a personal connection.
For me, allyship is about being proactive—always learning, calling out discriminatory behaviour, and supporting LGBTQ+ voices wherever possible. I’ve seen how even small actions, like wearing rainbow laces and getting involved in inclusive initiatives, can spark important conversations and start to shift perspectives.
This LGBTQ+ History Month, I’m reflecting on how far we’ve come while recognising there’s still more to do. It’s not just about football - it’s about creating a world where everyone feels welcome, valued, and able to be themselves.