Chris, I am afraid that this is one of those crucial times where we ensure the welfare and development of our young players is protected from this kind of unacceptable behaviour. This kind of attite, behaviour and language has no place in player development so regardless of how difficult the conversations will be action must be taken. Your welfare officer is one person to involve but it is ao a great chance to reestablish what the club and their approach to player development is (unless it fits with this outdated way of developing players). Good luck and make sure this stops Pete

Chris, I am afraid that this is one of those crucial times where we ensure the welfare and development of our young players is protected from this kind of unacceptable behaviour. This kind of attite, behaviour and language has no place in player development so regardless of how difficult the conversations will be action must be taken. Your welfare officer is one person to involve but it is ao a great chance to reestablish what the club and their approach to player development is (unless it fits with this outdated way of developing players). Good luck and make sure this stops Pete

Thanks for the replies. I will contact the clubs welfare officer first. Hopefully we can get it sorted out soon. 

Hi Chris

This is so sad to hear but unfortunately happens all to often. I appreciate it is a difficult decision personally but it is a welfare issue. 

As parents, the language we use has a huge impact on our children socially and psychologically.

If I used such language as a primary school teacher, I would be reprimanded, suspended or lose my job. Looking after children has legal implications and responsibilities. This language and tone, has no place or justification in grassroots sport.

Do the right thing by the players and your friend, and involve the club welfare officer. Safeguarding is everyone's responsibility.

Good luck