What makes a good coach?

Perhaps list your top three characteristics, traits, or actions that make a coach good. 

Parents
  • Passionate - it helps if you have a love for the game, and ensure that above all players can be the best versions of themselves and share the love for the game

    Organised - the FA plan, do, review model is a great way to improve or reinforce this trait

    Adaptive - a coach needs to have open ears, eyes and mind and respond to the players they support and able to clearly communicate (as an active listener)

  • Thanks James! Is passion something you can develop as a coach or do you think it's innate? If it's not innate - how do you develop it?
    And with the plan, do, review model - is that done alone by the coach or do you think input from others helps here? If so, what kind of input - like what the coaches do or how they do it etc?

  • Passion is innate - but so is pressure which can get in the way of enjoyment and the reinforcement of the passion.  That pressure can be the balance of work and home on top of volunteering and all that comes with getting training and games in place and working well.  So I'd personally see that being organised and adaptive are ways to either mitigate or prevent some of the pressure and being adaptive makes you better able to cope and respond.   I think the plan, do, review model is a great thing to collaborate on, with coaches, players, parents and guardians and again - that can also help to alleviate any pressure.

    We have tended to share the responsibilities of session planning, match day planning and responsibilities on the day.  We also make sure we reflect on what happened, and make small adjustments.  It's a team game on and off the pitch.

    If we're not feeling passionate, or if that enjoyment is being dampened down then I think it can be felt and seen by players.  So with reflection - we have to do everything to enables that innate force to shine through and keep us going as positive role models and advocates for our young players enjoying the game.

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  • Passion is innate - but so is pressure which can get in the way of enjoyment and the reinforcement of the passion.  That pressure can be the balance of work and home on top of volunteering and all that comes with getting training and games in place and working well.  So I'd personally see that being organised and adaptive are ways to either mitigate or prevent some of the pressure and being adaptive makes you better able to cope and respond.   I think the plan, do, review model is a great thing to collaborate on, with coaches, players, parents and guardians and again - that can also help to alleviate any pressure.

    We have tended to share the responsibilities of session planning, match day planning and responsibilities on the day.  We also make sure we reflect on what happened, and make small adjustments.  It's a team game on and off the pitch.

    If we're not feeling passionate, or if that enjoyment is being dampened down then I think it can be felt and seen by players.  So with reflection - we have to do everything to enables that innate force to shine through and keep us going as positive role models and advocates for our young players enjoying the game.

Children